It wasn't even rocking, purely holding him in the armchair, but I guess he really got used to having me there. I knew when 45m was up as without waking his hand would reach up and touch my face and he would happily continue sleeping.
Now it is in the cot, a little back rub and mum is out the door. Tonight he didn't even cry when I left the room
I tried something new today and would like your honest opinion. I don't think it is CIO but let me know what you think.
As my responding to him when he wakes results in him not going back to sleep...as the 430 NW come EW showed us...and the only way to get rid of the EW was to ignore him and he goes back to sleep and the next morning slept through ...well I tried it at his nap today.
He woke at 30 min and did the OT cry he does when he wakes and is not refreshed. Then when I didn't respond he did his yell that he does when no one comes, then he went quiet a bit, yelled and cried a bit, quiet a bit etc and then about 35 min later back to sleep for 45 min. And boy was he a pleasure this afternoon, no grizzly grumpiness.
I don't think it is CIO as he isn't exactly distressed crying, more annoyed and more yelling for attention than crying per say.
The BW books say do PUPD until he goes back to sleep or the nap time is over and in a few days (more I'd say) they will start sleeping the nap themselves. So I am working on this principle, but instead of PUPD I sit on the couch trying not to make noise, eating comfort food and pleading with some higher being that David will go back to sleep.
So what do you think?