Hi!! I will give a quick background and hopefully some of you may have some advice for us
Ok, my first son (now 3) ended up drinking soy formula and tolerating it well after having gas, fussiness, rash of cheeks on reg formula...now he tolerates dairy fine. My brother had a severe milk allergy but tolerated soy fine. My sons' father was on soy formula (not sure why) and tolerated it fine. My brother's son was on soy formula (again not sure why or if it was just preventative)....ok, so i have a 4 week old little guy and we started out BFing and then went to formula. I tried normal dairy based formula and he had watery dark green stools, TONS of gas, fussy, etc....so I am now trying the lactose free formula and his poops are now a lighter greeny yellow color but are now mucousy AND he seems to have increased babby acne/redness and yellow scaly skin (like cradle cap) low on his forehead (in between eyebrows) and now i see he is starting to get this around the base of his nose too. he looks miserable! He doesn't seem to feel as bad as he looks except when pooping he cries and still gets quite alot of gas and will often be awake for 4 hours or more fussing every evening.
Phew...i think i covered what i needed to say
Sorry this is so long and sorry if it makes now sense....basically i am wondering if i should just switch to soy or stay with the lactose free for longer or try something like Good Start......also the hypoallergenic formulas are not really an option unless absolutely necessary (obviously will go that route if need be!) because to top everything off Daddy decided he wants to relive his youth and ditch the family.....needless to say cash is very tight and the hypoallergenic formulas are very expensive (i live in canada).
Ok, anyways, any advice, thoughts, questions you may have would be greatly appreciated!!
thanks in advance.
xx tammy