So I have other posts going and the lovely Siobhan (Shiv52), along with Heidi (MasynandSpencer), has been helping with my barely eating, increasingly picky 19.5 month old son. But I'm hoping even more pairs of eyes/ideas might help?
Things have steadily been getting worse and now with this lately bout of cold/congestion (starting with an ear infection about 5 weeks ago) he's barely eating. But hungry and cranky and feeling better when he actually does eat. He was already getting picky before this started but now things he was eating up until he got sick are totally off limits. He's down to pretty much only pancakes, challah french toast (sometimes), dry cereal, an occasional banana, apple slices, chicken nuggets, pizza (sometimes) and raisin bread (he'd live on that if he could). And sometimes an Ella's kitchen fruit smoothie pouch or a yogurt. Up until this point he was also eating fresh strawberries (LOVED them), chicken noodle soup (one of his favorites in fact), broccoli potato pancakes, homemade meat patties with applesauce and chopped veggies, sweet potato fries and pasta. Now he won't even consider those things. He WILL eat veggie chips and goldfish crackers but I'm not currently offering them as I don't want those empty calories when he's eating next to nothing at this time.
I have had his ears rechecked and of this past Friday his ears, throat and chest were all clear. He does still have a fair amount of nasal/head congestion (as do DH and I and DD had an ear infection a little over a week ago) and is SUPER tired. He slept 12 (!) hours last night (he normally does 10-10.5) and had a 2.5 hour nap yesterday. And is napping now. He even freaks if we go near the high chair or booster. I've tried to make it fun and got Mickey Mouse table toppers, sing silly songs, etc but nothing helps.
Is this largely because of the lingering congestion/exhaustion do you think? Is there anything I can do? Cause when he does eat he has more energy, is happier, etc. All he ate so far today (and it's almost 1:30 pm) was half a small banana and an Ella's kitchen fruit smoothie pouch (50 calories). And he had 4 ounces of milk this morning. He was acting hungry and crying for food yet wouldn't eat anything I tried to offer.
Do I stick with only foods I KNOW he will eat for now? Try small amounts of those foods along with things he used to eat/love? Don't even put him at the dinner table/high chair/booster? At such a loss and he and I are so unhappy about this.
Thanks much everyone. It's appreciated as always!