Can someone please help before I lose my mind? I posted yesterday and didn't get a reply. I really, really need help!
My 12 week old baby used to sleep 12 hour stretches at night. It was obviously wonderful. He was never a great napper, but would take longer naps once in awhile. Now, it's miserable. He sometimes wakes up several times after we put him down for bed. So our nightime, which should be a chance for me to relax for second, is spent getting him back to sleep. Then he's also waking up in the middle of the night to eat (around 1 or 3) AND waking up earlier. His naps are a few 30 minute naps throughout the day. He will sleep for hours if I hold him. Yesterday I just held him for two of his naps just to get some sanity, but then I am miserable because I do'nt have a second to myself to get anything done for me.
I went into today really trying to pay attention to his cues, get him on an easy schedule, etc. He woke at 7, I fed him and then we did our usual morning stuff. I bring him in the kitchen and he sits and watches while I eat breakfast and have coffee. He's always happy at this time. By 7:45 he was miserable. How can he be tired of 45 minute awake time?
? I then decided to just wind him down and get him to his nap. Once he was swaddled (he MUST be swadded) he was screaming/crying/whining/wiggling around/fighting me for twenty minutes. It was beyond awful. I wanted to scream myself. It took four attempts at getting him down to sleep.
I will try the wake to sleep thing, but I don't understand really. How much is he supposed to wake? Should I go in at 15 minutes since he only sleeps for 30? I tried it yesterday, but don't know how awake he shold be when I do this. Any tips? What happens if he wakes up when I do it OR he wakes up still at the 30 minute mark?
PLEASE HELP!