So here I am. I put off posting b/c I thought it would get better but its not and I'm exhausted. So dd is 5 months. and for the past month or so has had multiple night wakings. I'll post our easy and then tell you about the nw. The night before last she was up at 9, I fed at 12:30 , up at 3:30 (took till 4:30) to resettle then up at 7 for the day. Yesterday looked like this.
Awake: 7
E:7:15 (bottle) 7 ounces
A:7-9 ( she had some cereal around

S:9-10 (was supposed to be 11 but I took dd1 to do errands and dh couldn't get her back to sleep

In between 10-11 she went back down for about 20 min
11: Bottle 7 ounces
A: 11-1 (cereal around 12)
S: 1-3
E:3 Bottle 7 ounces
A: 3-4:30
S: 4:30-5
E: 5 Cereal
A:5-7
E: 6:30 bottle 7 ounces
S: 7 (down for the night)
She was restless around 9 ish but resettle herself. But then I needed to resettle at 11:30 and 12:30. I fed her at 2:30 and then she was up at 4:30 and 5:30 and then up for the day at 7.
She has a pacifier but that doesn't seem to be the problem. When she wakes she is not crying she is either talking or yelling. Most of the time she can put herself to sleep unless I miss the window and I would say 30 percent of the time I need to help resettle a nap and 30 percent I cant resettle her so I just get her up and adjust our day. She is formula fed.