Thanks Deb, forgot to mention that we're right under a ww storm atm so of course that could be contributing too...
So what do you think about the cheese/yoghurt? It does seem that she's fine with cheese but yoghurt constipates her, but I can't understand why that would be, especially as I've heard that some find cheese constipating. The fact that cheese doesn't seem to affect her suggests to me that there can't be a major dairy issue eg an allergy, would you suggest continuing to offer yoghurt but perhaps just make sure it's not too much? Forgot to say she seems fine with butter too. She seems to have had better BMs today having had some yoghurt again at breakfast, but was extremely unsettled napping, eventually filling her nappy during nap time. Do you think it's more likely that the fussiness etc is due to things like OT and ww, with BMs interfering with sleep, rather than the yoghurt, given her tolerance of cheese? She did have a negative lactose intolerance stool test when very young, but I gather false negatives are common with that.
As for grains, she's already had quite a long period without any grains except rice, before I reintroduced wheat, and I chose that to start because she's never had a conclusive reaction to it. She was absolutely fine with that until I introduced egg yolk, but she coincidently then had two portions of wheat a day as I offered toast alongside fruit mixed with egg yolk, as well as pasta/cous cous later in the day. So it might have been the egg or the increased wheat? But it does seem strange to me if she had problems with oats but not wheat, now I'm wondering if the problem was with the added iron to the oat cereals, rather than the grain itself?? I'm struggling to walk the path between just offering everything as the HV tells me, and cutting out lots again... Sorry, I guess I just want someone to tell me I'm making it all up and it'll be fine, but life isn't quite that simple, right? :p
To answer your other questions, she gets prune or dried apricot purée every morning, sometimes with pear too, also has some peach most days and limited apple/banana. I spoon some dilute apple juice every morning too, also at lunch if she's constipated. She's quite good at drinking water from her sippy cup if she needs it, I certainly noticed her drink much more when it was really warm and also when we suspected she had the sore throat that the rest of the family had. She gets four bfs a day too. She's never had abx directly but I had them in labour. Do you think probiotics would help and if so, what would be recommended for babies? The ones I see in the shops all seem to be low fat but maybe that doesn't matter so much?