It got much better now, I met with a LC and she said that I should let my head off that and just feed, not counting any time etc. feeds during day are much more pleasant now. I am waiting for the LD definitely longer than a week ago - but I stopped counting minutes, just listen to some music and feeding and relaxing. However I have a problem with evening let down and not the time is a problem but LO being nervous. We are at 4mo now - exactly today! Probably wonder week. And two days ago evening was fine. We waited 10minutee maybe but it all came down, he got his milk. But yesterday firstly he didn't want to latch! I mean he was hungry, tried, after 10-15sec no let down so he got nervous and I fighted 10min for him to calm down and suck. Than another 10-15min for let down. It came when DH started to prepare milk for him ...
We did have problems with let down in the evening before that crisis but it usually meant 2/3minutes of us walking around the room and it went for him and he drank and it was fine. Do you have ideas how to tackle it?
We feed now 7:30, 11/11:15, 14:30/14:45, 18:30. There is a break between 3rd and 4th feed but for last 3 days he just refused feed around 5pm which we were doing until recently. So I moved evening feed earlier but not quite sure if I shouldn't move it even more. Like 6/6:15 and do bath afterwards. Maybe if he is less hungry, there will be less problems with him waiting for a feed? He has a DF at 11pm and than he goes till morning. Doesn't seem hungry, gaining weight, having wet diapers and poos. Feeds are big and all of them are both sided and at 22:30 I pump for DF and even with a pump I get 5oz every day. What's interesting I have a normal let down with a pump right now at 10:30pm but it is not working at 6/7pm LOL...
I also thought about a bottle at 6:30pm and pumping at 7pm when the kids are all down in their beds. Or using a pump before 6:30 feed. Wwyd?