I was thinking of using the method where you dilute the milk over a period of time. Have you heard about that? Cold turkey definitely isn't something I'm wanting to do.
Sorry, I didn't hear about it. I would think though that this way she will get too much fluid (water) during the night, not sure if that's ok... What I did was reducing the bottles by an oz every 3 nights and that worked very well for us.
As I said our EASY is vey wonky. We are bedtime problem if she doesn't fall asleep on the bottle, 45 minutes wake ups after falling asleep (and she is hysterical) as well as early wake ups.
The only thing that I think might be happening is like we talked about before, that she is ready for just one nap and that this CN in the afternoon is messing your BT. I would really drop that now. I know you are scared to do it, but I really think that's the only way. She will be tired for a while, but she will adjust, like any other toddler
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My worry is that she has such a long afternoon without the catnap but then I guess she is OT with it anyway.
I think it's a phase you will have to go through and push the AM A time a bit more so that the first A time is longer than the second one. Hopefully she will also sleep 2-3h at lunch time which will shorten the A time before BT. So to your question, yes, I would try and push the first A time by 10min and let her settle into it for a week.
I'm feeling like I don't have any other options but to settle her in this way now though but I'm aware that she is teething. I'll of course give her meds but feel awful during the PD sessions when she is so hysterical. I am still sitting by her cot so she knows that I'm there but she gets so upset during the process. Ugh, feels heartbreaking! If her routine was going well, I'd feel much better about doing it. I'm just winder ing what your experience was with PD? Did you have to keep re-doing it like this and your lo would be worse than he was before?
Hugs for the rough night
. I think it's teething, sounds like it anyway. If there is AP that works for you now, but only if there is one, then it's ok for a few days. If you don't manage to settle her in any way then I would continue with sitting next to her or standing next to her and doing PD for a few days. After that if there are still problems with settling and PD seems very distressing then maybe she outgrew it? I would then try WI/WO (
Walk In/Walk Out vs. The Gradual Withdrawal Method (HOW TO CHOOSE)) I don't have much experience with it though as I always used PD (again and again after having rough patches with teething/SA/moving to another country.
I think we may make more progress with a longer A time in the morning and perhaps just set the nap, do you think this would be the way forward?
Yes!
I think you can already increase it by 10min for another week.
Let me know how you are doing