Of course it may be coincidence or she was exhausted with such a long time until she eventally slept after being put to bed.
I think so, yes. But how did today go? You said that you had the same routine like yesterday, so how was BT? Did she fight it again or went down ok? If she went down ok and slept well tonight then I would actually stick to what you did in the last two days. Sure, it's not what's usually works, but every baby is different and BW is all about listening to YOUR baby's needs.
Would you say that I should be hoping for a nap anywhere between 1hr 30 - 2 hrs?
A restorative nap would be anything more than 1.5h. At her age and because you need to fit everything into your day I wouldn't let her nap more than 2h.
Also just checking for the PM nap, you do mean to actually wake her up don't you? How long should the PM nap be?
Yes, I do mean to wake her up. It's very hard to say how long to let her sleep. My DS did 1.5-2h in the morning and then 45min in the afternoon but his A time before BT was very short. I could put him 2h later to bed for the night and he was good with that. Perhaps you can try 1h and see how she's doing?
I'm also a little bit nervous about how much A time to give her before bedtime as I don't want her to be OT or UT If she short naps then I'm guessing it will be less then her usual A time.
That's the trickiest part, isn't it? I would for sure not give a full A time. Shortening it by 20min sounds like a good idea and what you could also do is look at what time she woke up in the morning and aim for BT to be 12h later - that's if she is usually a 12h night-12h day kinda girl, many babies are doing 13h day-11h night.
Also I can't burp her before putting her down and I worry a bit about that.
Is gas still a problem? I found that in the early months it was an issue for us and I had to burp after every NF but when DS was older and his stomach matured then it wasn't a problem anymore.
I am still a bit worried that if I do feed to sleep then it may become a problem in the future.
I never found it to be a problem, but it was my experience, yk?
When DS was 1.5yo I changed the BT routine so he would lay down elevated, hold the bottle and drink by himself (till then I held it for him in a dark room, can you believe it?) and I would sit next to him and read him a story. When he was ok with that we changed to sitting on the chair with me, drinking his bottle and me reading a story and later on we changed it that we do the above and then go brush teeth so he doesn't fall asleep straight after drinking the milk. I found throughout the last 2 years with him that the more I wait the easier it gets, because he is older, he can cope more with change and understand more. But every baby is different
AND! It's not only what works for your LO, but for you as well
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Let me know how you are doing.
Posted at the same time as you, going to have a look at your last post.