Hello all,
I would like some advice on how to help my gorgeous spirited little madam get to sleep at bedtime.
Long story, but she has up until about 6 weeks ago been pretty good with naps and bedtime. She has always been a cryer, and mantra cries for around 10 minutes before she finally drops off. Naps have always been much better than bedtime so we probably had issues at bedtime once a week where she ended up downstairs with us. My family would describe her as having duracell batteries i.e she seems to be able to stay awake for hours. Her record has been staying up until midnight having woken from her nap at 3pm
........and she was quite happy till the last 20 mins as long as we did not try to put her down for bed!!
Anyway, I have finally identified her as a spirited baby, which explains loads!! She is a nightmare with teething and suffers from awful separation anxiety...........and has done since being tiny.
The issue I have now is that regardless of how she sleeps in the day, she is refusing to go to bed, and gets so worked up that she vomits.........have been trying wi/wo which seems to stress her even more. Tonight I eventually got her to sleep 80 minutes after I first put her down, but the whole time she was flailing around, banging her arms and legs, and working herself into a frenzy, then when I picked her up to calm her she was desperately trying to get out of my arms (so I only did that twice!!). What eventually worked was having her fan on max speed (white noise I guess) and me saying very firmly 'enough' everytime she started up again! That is not my sleepy phrase, more like my exasperated one!! The only reason I could stay with her that long was because DH was home to deal with my angel/textbook 2year old!
Does anyone have any advice on how we can get through this? For the record, she is not crawling or standing yet so dreading the time when she does that!
Her EASY is this:(I'll miss out the E)
A 6.30am ish
S 9.30am (45 mins) if she has longer than the pm nap goes out of the window!
A 10.15am
S 1pm
A 3pm
Bath 6.30 and bedtime 7pm(in my dreams!)
Help.....