Thank you so much for that. Yeah, I think it was the 30 min naps and the super early BT's that are getting to me. That, and I'd like a more "consistent" WU...like 7. I have a 3 year old and we like to go out n about in the evenings but when her BT is like 6-6:30...we barely finish dinner with zero time to go out anywhere. Yesterday she slept 2h40 in total naps...in bed at 7:05 and asleep by 7:20. WU @ 6:10.So, first nap will have to be 9:30. So, I'd really like that second nap to be capped @ 45 mins but when she wakes up at 11:00 from her first nap...40-45 mins to get her to a 7ish bedtime...just isn't reasonable. But, I'm just going to go with her flow as best I can I suppose. She clearly beats to her own drum. I REALLY need her to be on one nap by end of June. She'll be 12 months, I'll be going back to work soon and she'll be at the day home with her brother. But, I don't even know where to start because when I tried to push her A time from 3h20 to 3h30...she woke after 30.
But in answer to your question. Just looking to move that am nap, attain a more reasonable BT that fits with the family and get a WU closer to 7am...as opposed to 6.
Again, thanks so much for all your insight. I really appreciate it more than you know.