Thanks for both of your replies:)
Katherine, if you don't mind, I'll post a few days so that you can get a general idea
19th
6.30 - WU but RS
8.30 - I woke her ( we all overslept)
Nap: 2 - 4
BT - 8
20th
8.20 - WU
Nap: 1.50 - 4.20 (2.5 hours)
BT- 8.30
21st
7.20 - WU
Nap: 12.45 -3.30
Sleep - 8
22nd
6 am WU
..and we're back to normal EW today too. I know those days seem fine but even with pushing the day so late, she still went back to the EW time, you see? And before this week, we don't have a single day with a 7 am WU, even though BT was fixed at 7pm. She woke between 5.30 & 6 every single day. Ugh. I've stopped even trying/aiming for a fixed WU as we never make it to that time and I am moving things around in the hopes that something will click. We do stay in her room in dark till as close to normal WU as possible though. Sorry to hear that B is back to his short nights. I thought they had finally lengthened out. Naps are fine here and even if we get a short nap, I go for a 10 min CN and normal BT of 7pm. EBT is simply not an option anymore as she simply wakes up even earlier and completely refreshed! Lol
That's a long day your DS was doing, creations.
Initially I wasn't a fan of the BT move to 8pm (I was done by the end of the day and just wanted him in bed to get my Y time!)
Exactly! I did not like this past week at all. I had no time to myself at all. After I got her down, had dinner and pumped, it was already waaay late. And also what about days when she has trouble going to sleep & I need to settle her - everything would just be so late.
Mine liked a short last A but some won't sleep after only 4hrs awake time.
Mine liked a short A too. 3 was the absolute max she would do. Until we sleep trained and now anything goes. It's a bit disconcerting, TBH. It's like the wild wild west here and all bets are off.
So I thought about it a bit more. What if, she is getting too much day sleep atm but capping isn't an option otherwise it would be too long an A to bed. So basically, maybe all I have to do is wait till I can push A some more and then as the nap gets later, I could cap it and then hopefully nights would lengthen? Am I making any sense?
Posted with you, Suzanna. Thanks for popping in:) I have been spoilt with these long nights!