Hey, sorry this seems to have got missed
I have a few thoughts, but suspect that things may have changed since you last posted...
Well, fwiw, I think she sounded a bit OT there, with all those short naps. Have you tried reducing the A time after a short nap? Many LOs just get into a frustrating OT cycle after a short nap, as they can't manage a full A time. Actually at this age I decided to just aim for one long nap in the sling each day, since both mine were short-nappers. It helped to reset them a bit and help them catch up, so that they could manage a decent A time before the next nap in the cot. Do you think something like that could work for you?
The other thing with short naps is whether you're trying to resettle them? And if so, what have you tried, and what tends to happen? Does she get to sleep independently?
I noticed that she had a nice first nap on the Wednesday after 1h 40min A time, but they weren't so long on the following days after a longer A time, so perhaps try a little less...but then again we're a couple of weeks on now so hard to guess! Maybe try 1h 45 and see what happens?
As for the 4th nap/EBT, if you have to collect DD1 you may find EBT difficult and need to do the 4th nap so as not to have too long an A to bed, but I'd tend to agree that EBT is likely to work better at this stage. As for how long an A to do before bed, these LOs do seem to vary...mine would need it really short if it was a CN, and many need it a bit less than their A times earlier in the day. But bear in mind, mine were always on the low end for A times, so I do tend to be biased in that direction
One thing I found helpful was to try and keep track of the amount of overall sleep in 24h that resulted in a happy settled baby (I know, it may not happen as often as we like...) and then each day I'd look back over it and see how much A time they'd accrued. If they were already headed for their maximum ideal total A time in 24h, I'd go for EBT. If they'd napped well, or even short napped but had short A times and I felt they needed a bit more A, I'd go for a short CN so that they could have a little more A afterwards, iyswim??
As for NFs, she certainly seemed hungry that Wednesday! But I suspect she may be over the GS by now? Hopefully if she can get out of the OT cycle she'll start waking less frequently at night. Tbh 3x NFs isn't so unusual at this age, and it's hard if you've been trying to resettle for ages as they might be genuinely hungry by then anyway from having been awake for so long. So I guess I'm hoping that the NFs will sort themselves out once the OT cycle is broken...what do you think?
Sorry, I realise much of this may be out of date now, do update us and we'll do our best not to miss you again