Thank you all so much for your hugs! Support and encouragement much appreciated. I've stuck it out a few more days. How do you think we're going? I'm confused about bedtime tonight so I'll have to just wing it.
Fri 19/12
WU: 5.35
Nap: into bed at 1.00 (asleep 1.10) - 2.00 (woken) *got out of bed screaming, hitting, kicking, biting. Returned and stood outside door with verbal reassurance.
BT: into bed at 7.00. Screamed in protest for me to return. Stood outside door with verbal reassurance, he was asleep by 7.30
** absolutely miserable and had several grand mal meltdowns. One at the shops which was horrific and I was crying too and another after bath where he held his breath (thankfully he didn't pass out).
NW: 2.30 - shout out
NW: 5.40 - shout out
Sat 20/12
WU: 6.50 chatting
Nap: into bed at 1.00 (asleep 1.15) - 2.00 (woken)
*bit of a fuss but I just used verbal reassurance from outside his door.
BT: Into bed at 7.00. Shouted mummy but not as bad as previous nights. Verbal reassurance (ssshhh sleepy time now) from outside door once in the first 5 mins then quiet. Asleep by 7.30
NW: 11.20 restless w/ cry out at 11.40. Asleep at 11.50. *could have been sooner
NW: 11.57 cry for 5 secs.
Sun 21/12
WU: 6.05 chatting until 7
Nap: into bed at 1.00 (asleep by 1.15) - 2.00 (woken) **NO FUSSING!**
BT: in bed at 9.00pm, quiet straight away. Asleep by 9.30 when I checked!!
NW: 5.30 ran into my room crying. Returned to bed in silence and he lay quietly until 7.
Mon 22/12
WU: 7.00
Nap: into bed at 1.00 (asleep by 1.15) **NO FUSSING!!** - 2.00 (woken)
BT: into bed at 7.00 and wasn't as happy going down but after about a minute he was ok and quiet until 7.30 when he started crying because his mosquito canopy had fallen down on top of him (Oops!). I'm hoping he was asleep by 8.
NW: 3.30 cry out for a few secs
Tues 23/12
WU: didn't hear anything until 6.58! Chatting until 7
Nap: 20 MINUTE NAP!!!
Into bed at 1.08 straight from the car so no wind down
spent a few minutes crying 'mum' and hopping out of bed. It was a shorter A time to nap but he was visibly tired from about 12pm. Under tired? OT? No wind down? I woke him at 2.10 so an hour of being in bed.
Absolutely no idea what to do about bedtime? What are the recommendations when doing 1-0 and they don't want to nap? How early is early bedtime?
6.30? Earlier? He probably won't tack on so it could be a super early morning...
Thank you again!!
ETA: I put him down at 6.50pm but he was calling out and up and down like a jack in the box for a good 10mins. Hoping he's asleep by 7.30. Wishful thinking though, took him almost an hour and that's with me going in at 7.20 as he'd climbed up and got the monitor and was turning the night light on and off
He's so hyperactive now I can't work out if it's UT or OT? Surely with such a short nap he would be shattered?