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Re: need help with a routine for 24mo dd
« Reply #60 on: February 19, 2014, 20:17:50 pm »
Oh and she has several shouty/ crying nws too so its not like shes sttn either.!!
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Re: need help with a routine for 24mo dd
« Reply #61 on: February 19, 2014, 20:41:21 pm »
I know you said you LO is HSN, but I wanted to share DS's schedule, since it does seem pretty close to what you LO is doing now (I'd say he's average SN, and he's 26 months now, but had this schedule for quite a while)

WU: 6:30
Nap: 12-1:30 (this does tend to vary by 30 minutes more or less)
BT: 7:30 (occassionally does up to 15 minutes early)

Since 24 months or so we've had a short NW (just a call out and paci replug, occassionally longer, but not usually).

As you can see, his day is typically 13 hours long. It could be your LO is ready for a longer day now?


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Re: need help with a routine for 24mo dd
« Reply #62 on: February 19, 2014, 20:58:38 pm »
Ugh just lost my post >:(

She has had 13+ days and always has a short night after (like yest) which im sure is ot...shes always sttn but when she doesnt nws are usually dev or ot...

Shes only been on set times recently so surely its too soon to need changing up???
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Re: need help with a routine for 24mo dd
« Reply #63 on: February 20, 2014, 19:29:21 pm »
Ok so today has been better

Wu 7.05 (after many nws)
nap 12.55-2.45
bt 7.10 pd 6.45

Im thinking ot from long am as when she has EWU. Shouldnt she have settled into set times by now?

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Re: need help with a routine for 24mo dd
« Reply #64 on: February 22, 2014, 20:20:50 pm »
She had several nws and a short night again 8-6.10am. This is ot right? Todays easy

Wu 6.10
nap 12.45-3.15 (rs @ 2.30 & i woke @ 3.15)
bt 7.15 pd 7.05

so no shenanigans at nap or bt. Shes been on set times for a month now and until last week was doing ok...falling asleep quickly at nap and bt albeit with a few nws which id been expecting. But the shouty nws and ew has just been recently...is this accumulated ot?

thoughts on what i should do? im ok with set nap but if she short naps(less than 2 hrs) should i adjust a to bt accordingly or stick to 6.30/7 set time?   
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Re: need help with a routine for 24mo dd
« Reply #65 on: February 23, 2014, 01:32:18 am »
I would call a short nap at less than 1.5 hours, and possibly just judge how tired your LO is in the evenings. There are nights when DS seems more tired than usual, but we would just get into pj's early, give him his lovey (paci) and read with him a little longer. BT would only be 15 minutes early, but this seemed to help keep him calm. He doesn't fall asleep anyways if we put him down too early.

If the EW's are recent, a gro-clock could be very helpful. We use an imitation one which turns the light on at his normal wake-up time. He started a bout of waking up 45 minutes early for about a week, so we got the clock and insisted he couldn't come out of his room/ it wasn't morning until the light came on, and he stopped EW'ing, once he got that message (only took a few days).

I would also say to keep your interaction at a minimum in motn during a NW, as this also helped us shorten NW's. We found that talking to DS and asking him what was wrong kept him up for longer, than simply giving him his paci, a sippy cup with water and whispering go back to sleep with a gentle pat. When we were asking him what was wrong he was up for longer.

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Re: need help with a routine for 24mo dd
« Reply #66 on: February 23, 2014, 07:23:35 am »
Im already doing most of that- minimising contact at nws, lights on a timer but its not making a diff to ew....

Having said that she sttn and woke at 6.45 today!!
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Re: need help with a routine for 24mo dd
« Reply #67 on: February 23, 2014, 14:11:30 pm »
Ugh i spoke to soon :( i pd for nap at 1 and she didnt fall asleep till 1.45 pm. Any thoughts on nap length and bt?
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Re: need help with a routine for 24mo dd
« Reply #68 on: February 23, 2014, 21:51:39 pm »
How did it go?  Here I'd have done 1h30 nap and BT 7/7.15pm x

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Re: need help with a routine for 24mo dd
« Reply #69 on: February 23, 2014, 22:09:28 pm »
Thats what she did but no input from me ::) she was ot by bt tho *sigh* i was hoping that by now she would have settled into set times...
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Re: need help with a routine for 24mo dd
« Reply #70 on: February 24, 2014, 08:17:07 am »
Just remind me what set times were you trying?  It may not be that set times are wrong per se, just they may not be the right set times for her iykwim?

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Re: need help with a routine for 24mo dd
« Reply #71 on: February 24, 2014, 08:30:45 am »
Nap at 1 and bt 7. She actually sttn last night and wu was 6.15. its just hit or miss tho whether she will sttn...so not sure where im going wrong. My gut feeling is she gets ot on days like this when wu is early but wont extent nap so gets ot by bt too :-/
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Re: need help with a routine for 24mo dd
« Reply #72 on: February 24, 2014, 08:40:33 am »
The way I normally deal with that is to keep nap time the same, but move BT early by 30 mins or so even if the nap was a decent length.  We do around a 12h day on a 1h30-45 nap on days at home (not even going to mention nursery days - chaos!).  So in terms of A times the post-nap A time is often as short as 4h.

Is there anything else could be causing her to wake at night?  We have had far fewer NWs now that all Js teeth are fully through but a few months ago we were getting NWs almost every night and nothing I did seemed to make a blind bit of difference! 


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Re: need help with a routine for 24mo dd
« Reply #73 on: February 24, 2014, 09:09:28 am »
Hmm she still has four molars to come but theres no sign of them yet... i have been doing 6.30 bt on a short nap but i think shes ot by then so ebt isnt early enough yk? Ill try to stick to a 12h day and see if that helps...thanks hon x
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