STACY, I'm not really sure what you mean by the 2.5 thing, but anyway, no matter, he never went down for a pm nap. And no, he has NEVER taken two naps since I started trying, but I have been giving him that "time out in the crib without sleep in the am's", remember??
So as it stands, he took that 20 minute am nap three days ago (never went back down for a pm), a 40 minute nap two days ago (never took a pm nap that day either), a two hour pm nap yesterday and a thirty minute nap this am. Most nights have been 10 hours or so with NW's that he hadn't had before in weeks and weeks. He is not in good shape.
I guess I can officially say two naps will not work for this kid. He did not go back down today and I had him in the crib for two hours (1:05 to 3pm). He rubbed his eyes and yawned all afternoon, but would not go to sleep.
I went to the BBQ, and had to just throw caution to the wind for my sanity's sake. He was asleep by 7:30pm, it was the best I could do tonite. I couldn't stay in the house another minute.
Tomorrow, I'll start all over again. Quiet time in the crib, but NO AM NAPS AT ALL, and pm nap to start at 12noon. I won't be too worried about length of nap, and to have him asleep at MOST 5 hours from when he woke.
I am exhausted again, and my nerves suck and I can't worry any more.
Do I even make any sense any more?