I am feeling very discouraged and not sure where to go from here...
I feel like we have pretty much gone back to square one with GW. When he was teething really bad and learning to pull up to stand all at the same time, I was doing pretty much whatever necessary to soothe him. I didn't PU, but I would rub his back, sing, keep my hand on his back longer, etc. Well he had 4 teeth cut through in just a little over a week, so I think we have a little break from teething pain for now. However, he is still not very stable when he pulls up to stand. Most of the time he can figure out how to get down but he still falls a good bit. When he started pulling up, I would sit on the floor with my arms through the rails and hold on to him to try to help prevent him from getting hurt. As soon as I would put him in bed, he would pull up immediately and cry. He will do this for as long as an hour before going to sleep. When he finally lays down, I rub his back and sing. Then I stop singing and rubbing but keep my hand on his back (longer than I should). This is what I am doing now each night. For naps, he usually goes right to sleep.
Since he got his teeth in, the long 2hr NWs have stopped. The last 3 nights he has only woken once to eat around 2-4am. But he has been waking early around 5:30. He is getting about 10.5-11hrs sleep at night. This might would be enough if he was getting more sleep during the day, but he isn't. Naps aren't going too great either. The second nap is still around 30min. The first nap started to be really short also, but I think he was OT from the EWs. Yesterday I decreased that A time by 10min and he slept better. I'm hoping that continues to work. But then when I put him down for the second nap he stood and cried for 30min before falling asleep. Even when the second nap is only 30min, he always goes right to sleep. Is it possible he was OT in the morning but UT for the second nap??
So, I'm wondering...where do I go from here?? I start back work in 2.5 weeks. He will be staying with a lady who will also have 3 other LOs around his age. So, she will not be able to spend the amount of time I do getting him to sleep. I'm worried he will not sleep there!! Do I try to start over with GW now, or is it too late? With DS1, he too stood and cried (but he was 10.5mo so was much better at getting down without getting hurt). With him, I sat on the floor with one hand through the rails. He cried a while but eventually laid down beside me and held my hand. I didn't touch him otherwise. I am nervous to try this with DS2 because I'm afraid he will fall and will just never lay down!!!! In your opinion, what should I do now??