So now my LO is almost 6.5mo and we are at about 2hr 50min A time before the first nap and about 2hr 55min before the second nap. He always naps around 35min for the second nap, so I have a hard time figuring out the right A time before a CN. I read to try about 15min shorter, so I have been trying around 2hr 35min, but he takes much longer to fall asleep for the CN.
I first tried increasing to these times last Wednesday, but after your suggestion on him maybe being OT I decided to drop back the next day (decreased by 10min). That was the day he for some strange reason took two 2hr naps. (That was a one time only day!) Since that time seemed good Thursday, I stuck with it for 4 days. His morning nap those days was 2hr Thursday, 2hr Friday, 1hr 20min Saturday, 34min Sunday. His second nap was 2hr Thursday, then Friday-Sunday was around 35min. His EWs were getting a little better so I decided to add the 10min back to see if it would help lengthen those naps. So, here is the last 3 days with the new A times:
Since I just started solids, he is doing oatmeal about 1hr after morning BF and trying veggies about 1hr after the lunch BF.
Also, I used to keep him up longer after CNs but you had thought it was too long before BT and maybe causing him to be OT, so I have tried doing a much shorter A time. This has helped with the BT battle a lot. Although, he seems to pretty much fall asleep nursing and then I put him down, so I'm not sure if this is going to create a future problem.
Monday:
Night before- BT: 7:05; NWs: 10:30, 11:30 (NF), 4 (just wouldn’t settle so NF again at 4:30)
WU: 6:55
E: 7:00
A: A time=2hr 50min
S: 9:45-11:20 (1hr 35min)
E: 11:25
A: A time=2hr 55min
S: 2:15-2:50 (35min)
E: 2:55
A: A time= 3hr (He took about 20min to go fall asleep)
S: 5:50-6:20 (30min)
E: 6:20
E: 7:00
A: A time before BT=1hr 15min
S: 7:35
NW: 8:30, 9:45, 4:25(NF)-tried putting him back in bed and just would not settle so BF again and had to hold some before he would stay asleep in his bed
Tuesday:
WU: 7:30
E: 7:30
A: A time=2hr 45min
S: 10:15-11:30 (1hr 15min)
E: 11:35
A: 2hr 55min
S: 2:25-3:00 (35min)
E: 3:05
A: A time=2hr 45min (He took about 15min to fall asleep)
S: 5:45-6:15 (30min)
E: 6:15
E: 7:00
A: A time before BT=1hr 20min
S: 7:35
NW: 8:20, 8:50, 10 (NF), 4:10(NF)
Wednesday:
WU: 6:50
E: Wouldn’t eat when he woke so waited until 7:30
A: A time= 2hr 50min
S: 9:40-11:05 (1hr 25min)
E: 11:10
A: A time=2hr 55min
S: 2:00-2:40 (40min)
E: 2:50
A: A time=2hr 40min (I waited 5 more min today to start trying for this nap and he only took about 5min to fall asleep!)
S: 5:20-5:50 (30min)
E: 5:50
E: 6:55
A: A time before BT=1hr 35min
S: 7:25
NW: 9:30, 11:30 (12:00-NF), 5:30 (NF-we both fell back asleep in the rocking chair until 7)
Let me know what you think. I really want to be able to do 2 naps, but he can't sleep long enough for the second one. Our A times are long enough to where we could do only 2 if he could just start sleeping better! Thanks!!!