Sherrie-Lee- i think that letting your lo explore n play is the best thing, because eventually she will do that to 'wind down' and self sooth her own way into sleep-- i think that if you keep it up, the crying time will lessen, and you can (refreing to my very first post) move on to later phases involving you on the side of her cot w'/no physical contact to you comforting just outside her room, to the door, to.. no more!! there is light at the end of the tunnel! as long as you are consistent, you will see progress, and hopefully sooner than you think! this leads me to another point, let me know what you think about it (btw, i apologise if you have mentioned previously, but how old is you lo and how often if she waking?) : if you aren't having to do very many 'removals' at night, and you feel confident that you can be consistent for a week or so (less sleep for you, unfortunately) why don't you continue with your pat/shh method through the evening as well? i think you will find results much faster (some mothers in my babygroup did not take theirs out of the cot and offered water from cup/bottle and have sleepless nights- however, they did it 'do or die' style... no matter how upset baby got, they kept them there- i don't think that is necessary tho) and also see progress in the day as well. what do you think?
as for me, FINALLY the separation thing has passed, and i must say, that it has been THE BIIIGEST hurdle yet (as far as nights are concerned atleast!) and with the flu gone and the cough starting to subside, my lo, after several weeks, is AT LAST letting me comfort her w/out picking her up (only sometimes, but it's a start..again!) and she really seems more eager to settle herself, so hopefully i too will be waking less at night as well-- that is, until we go on a 9hour plane to miami next month then to panama and jetlag and who knows what else foils my plans again!! :roll: it's ok tho, im TOOO excited!
sweet dreams everyone and good luck!
btw- is sandra, jennifer or frosty still around?
happy holidays to all, and to all a good night :shock: :shock: