Hi there.
Stacey - don't worry that you didn't go in when it sounded sadder than normal. Even when I know Zara is sick, I always try the normal, consistant every day way first, otherwise how will I know if she can handle it or really does need me. I figure after I go and tell her it is time to be asleep now and leave, or don't go at all, she has the option of escalating it, by crying louder, yelling louder, whatever, as the mummy you can tell if she really needs you or not. If she doesn't, she is OK without me. I figure that means I only end up APing when she really means she needs it. And then it isn't AP, it is love, cause I have understood her needs. But it is hard, I always feel like going at the first tiny wimper - I think I might be one of those mummies that Tracey calls "poor baby parents" cause I always think - "oh poor baby, let mummy make it better for you" LOL.
It is 5:52, no stirring yet, looking good again this morning. Still have the TV coming on outside her room each morning though
A challenge for me today though. I am going to a town 2.5 hrs drive away for the day. Zara does not sleep well on these days, just a couple naps in the car, but they are usually only about 45mins each or so. And I always end up APing after these, because I think it is MY fault for messing her sleep up, so if she gets overtired it is MY fault. But you have made me realise something - she will be fine with that tiny amount of sleep. She is always fine after that and less at daycare, so why shouldnt' she be fine when she has that little with me?
Go Aisling!! You can do this!!! Go, Aisling, Go!
Oh, and Yesterday there was definitely only time for one nap, cause DH thought she was a little tired at 12:40, so her put her to bed - and she played until 1:15
. She slept til 3:30, so no room for a second nap obviously. She was whingey in the afternoon, but I don't think it was nap related - she was drooling, and biting my shoulder (
) and I put some teething gel on and her eye teeth are definitely moving, poor thing. But she went to bed just fine, right on time, and slept through despite a major dog barking incident at about 3am.