Thanks mum, thanks lily for all your suggestions as well, yep it is confusing bt I feel I have OPTIONS as opposed to just guessing randomly and hoping one day he'll just sleep sttn by himself!
Anyway, he went down for a nap at 11am and woke at 12.30pm. Refused his PM nap completely so I put him to bed early around 6.15/6.30. So he chose himself to take just 1nap today....eek! Im pretty sure he was OT and will get some bad results tonight, oh well, lets see.
I cant honestly say thank u enough for all your suggestions and help ladies, thanku and HUGS!!!! Will be back tomorrow with an update!