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Re: Baby Led Weaning Support Thread - Part 9
« Reply #375 on: January 06, 2012, 02:20:57 am »
This is a great spot.  My son was and still is a terribly fussy eater and had a huge problem with textures. For a while I had a feeling that I was giving my lo too many solids, but she just loves everything and she is still having 4 good bf's a day.
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Re: Baby Led Weaning Support Thread - Part 9
« Reply #376 on: January 06, 2012, 08:35:01 am »
MM- ha ha- yeah... i'd put a couple in, then you can put them in the fridge for later... i'd probably do them in 30 second bursts? Especially if you only have a couple in there. The othe reason a couple is good is that uyou can take a little bite to see if they're done. Sweet potato and butternut pumpkin, butternut squash are a couple of my favourites. easy to make soft....Just do them in the same way.
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Re: Baby Led Weaning Support Thread - Part 9
« Reply #377 on: January 06, 2012, 10:33:31 am »
MommyMoulton - Make plenty, some of them will end up on the floor (or in the dog) so it's good to have extra cooked so you can pop another down on the tray.  Also the best way for your LO to eat is to see you eat exactly the same thing.  I always made a point of telling and showing DS that I was having 'same'.  Yes it means slightly odd meals or snacks for you for a little while but you can also prepare a full meal for the family and just offer LO a part of it.  So if you have pie chips carrots give him just the carrots part.
It's a good way to improve your own diet because you will increase veg and fruit intake and reduce salt, sugar and junk food intake (not saying you eat a lot of junk, I have no idea, but we all eat 'naughty' foods don't we).
I found it a little strange at the beginning as I was having these quite limited meals at odd times with DS but now we have a big lunch together and it is my main meal of the day, then more of a snack for dinner.

FWIW to all - approaching 1 yr old DS has recently started to re-question food he is offered.  He used to put everything he was offered straight in his mouth.  Now there are times he looks at things and seems to be unsure if they are ok to eat.  If he hasn't seen me eat it yet he offers me a piece of his (to check for poison I reckon!) and I either nibble his or take a piece off my own plate and show him me eating it.  I think this is a natural process as they explore and have more chance of encountering danger.  I don't know if anyone else found this.  To me it seems similar to separation anxiety - as in LO becomes more cautious.  With SA it can be linked to mobility, they get on the move and SA kicks in to keep them close to mummy and safety, wander off and you can get eaten by the lions.  I've read nothing about this sort of thing with food but to me it sounds logical.


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Re: Baby Led Weaning Support Thread - Part 9
« Reply #378 on: January 06, 2012, 11:10:33 am »
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Re: Baby Led Weaning Support Thread - Part 9
« Reply #379 on: January 06, 2012, 20:29:24 pm »
Thank you Creations and Buntybear, this is great. I think I have been a bit 'cautious' on what I've been giving my lo.

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Re: Baby Led Weaning Support Thread - Part 9
« Reply #380 on: January 07, 2012, 08:01:47 am »
Hi all!

Been reading along, as I also want to start finger foods...V is 6 mo next week and so far he's had purees of fruit..and didn't have veggies yet.
So, as I'm in a different culture than most of you, ladies, we don't have many of the things you have.... Of course, I mean to start with carrots, but instead of sweet potatoes, can I use ordinary potatoes? And do you steam beetroot the same as you do carrots? I've never tried beetroot, so it'll be interesting. And do you steam fruit as well? Like we have apples and pears here now, can you steam them?



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Re: Baby Led Weaning Support Thread - Part 9
« Reply #381 on: January 07, 2012, 09:46:45 am »
yup- steam the apples and pears as they'll be too hard otherwise. I'm sure potato will be fine! And i've never steamed beetroot, but it could be fun- messy tho!!

If you have a think about how you prepare the foods like beetroot as you would, and just reduce the salt content and sugar.. if you can! Offerring foods that you are eating makes it easier for you!

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Re: Baby Led Weaning Support Thread - Part 9
« Reply #382 on: January 07, 2012, 10:05:29 am »
Hey Tecike - the thing with BLW is to give Lo the 'same' food as the family.  In the very early days I made food especially for LO and I to eat together, it didn't make a full meal for me though.  But quickly moved on to 'real' food.  So you really can and should just offer LO something from your regular diet.  Within reason, no sugar, salt, honey etc.  But one of the positive aspects of BLW is that if you start your LO on the food you usually eat then they get used to those flavours right from the off.

There is no need to start with carrots or any particular food, just whatever you want.
What sorts of food do you usually eat as a family?

Is it things like stews, meat, beans, mousaka, polenta? (sorry to be ignorant of your culture! I just googled it and this is what I read)  My DS LOVES stews with beans, aubergine, courgettes (zuccini), tomatoes and red peppers.  I usually chop the veg in quite big chunks so he can get hold of them.

My DS is not fond of potato unless it is roasted, in the early days I made some potato wedges (skins on, baked in the oven) sprinkled with some herbs or spices and he ate them but he went off them when he discovered there were other foods to eat!

Yes you can steam fruit, DS got lots of steamed apple wedges and pear wedges.  They only take a minute or two though, do watch them or they turn to mush really quickly.
Soft fruits like melon, nectarine, papaya, mango, plum can be given without steaming.
You can offer fish and meat from 6 months too (UK guidelines other places are different).

And cooked beetroot - I LOVE it and don't get it nearly as often as I would like.  That would be a lovely food to offer, but expect some stained clothes!


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Re: Baby Led Weaning Support Thread - Part 9
« Reply #383 on: January 07, 2012, 11:28:03 am »
Hi Tecike!

I give Sophia steamed beetroots (same as steaming carrots). I've heard that they stain when raw but not once cooked, but don't trust me on that one! My lo loves baked potato wedges or home made chips. She also likes steamed broccoli and cauliflower, though I don't give these at night as they seemed to cause some gas at the beginning. I also made some chicken patties with minced chicken, some grated carrot and marrow and a beaten egg. I froze some before cooking and they're great to pop in the oven for both girls if what we're eating isn't suitable (or ready!).



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Re: Baby Led Weaning Support Thread - Part 9
« Reply #384 on: January 07, 2012, 12:11:40 pm »
Is that where i'm going wrong with the patties? Does freezing them after they're cooked dry them out?
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Re: Baby Led Weaning Support Thread - Part 9
« Reply #385 on: January 07, 2012, 12:34:26 pm »
Hmmm. Don't think I've ever tried freezing after they're cooked. I suppose it might if there isn't any gravy. I freeze them raw then bake them in a dish with a little coconut oil so they don't dry out. You could also fry in a little coconut oil or butter I guess.



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Re: Baby Led Weaning Support Thread - Part 9
« Reply #386 on: January 07, 2012, 16:42:13 pm »
Hi Ladies :)

I'm joining in to listen along for now and I'll probably have some questions as well.  DS will be 6 mo in 3 weeks and I'm quite interested in BLW (have just received the book by mail and read a chapter or two). 

DD basically BLWd unintentionally; she did NOT like any purees I tried and I tried them all, LOL!  But, I didn't know I could give her real/finger food at 6 mo, so we started at 8 mo when she could pick little pieces of avocado, sweet potato, banana off her tray by herself.  She LOVED that and it fit her spirited/independent side well.

My main concern with DS is that he's quite a big baby (I think around18.5-19 lbs now) and doesn't typically make it 4 hrs between feeds (EBF) yet (partly due to short naps, but partly due to hunger).  I know he won't be getting much with BLW to start off with (not that he would with purees either, I guess).  And, I know that the main point of starting solids isn't to push other feeds farther apart, but I am getting a bit antsy to get there with him.  Any experiences to share?



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Re: Baby Led Weaning Support Thread - Part 9
« Reply #387 on: January 07, 2012, 19:21:08 pm »
They start getting food down pretty quickly Katie, and my DD still has a lot of milk anyway, so I don't think it should be a problem... I started letting her experiment a bit before 6 months and she 'got it' pretty quickly. At the beginning you do have to look at it like play and as a learning experience though. Give it a try! Its lots of fun and great if you have an older one to worry about too ;)



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Re: Baby Led Weaning Support Thread - Part 9
« Reply #388 on: January 07, 2012, 21:56:41 pm »
Katie- we started hamish a week before 6 months (he grabbed my banana and i figured that that was close enough!) It took him pretty much 2 weeks before he'd reliably pick up the food and eat it. THis could mean that it takes 2 weeks fron starting (roughly) or once he was just over 6 months he had the fine motor skills required. Either way- it doesn't take long. It will seem like FOREVER!!! And you'll be thnking 'oh my god- this kid is never eating!!' BUT you need to remember that if you are following traditional weaning, with a new food every 4 days, and starting with a teaspoon once a day and working up slowly to a couple of tablespoons, it would take you a couple of weeks ANYWAY for them to be getting enough nutrition from the food. The milk is still the main source- and if you compare the amount of nutrients, energy etc in a a few tablespoons of puree carrot, to that of the breastmilk/formula, you'll realise that it's not the main source...

And it's great fun watching them try the new things!!
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Re: Baby Led Weaning Support Thread - Part 9
« Reply #389 on: January 07, 2012, 22:26:23 pm »
Maaaaaaan!!! I've just realised that i've been doing it all wrong! Ever since Abi's had pincer grip mastered i've been breaking things into pieces for her. Aggh! Fail!

Do you guys think that if I start giving her bigger pieces again now that she'll cope with them?