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Re: Toddler Support Thread for 2-1 Nap Transition Continued
« Reply #165 on: March 07, 2010, 00:04:53 am »
Today was our best 1 nap day so far.  Woke at 7am and down for her nap at noon.  She slept 2hrs15min!!!! ;D  YAY!  I'm very happy about this.  She did wake at 1hr15min like usual however I just didn't go into her and she went right back to sleep.  She was asleep for the night at 7pm.  I think now that we have gone to 1 nap now for 10 days that there is no going back.  I'm liking it much better.  Our 12hr nights are back finally.
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Re: Toddler Support Thread for 2-1 Nap Transition Continued
« Reply #166 on: March 07, 2010, 00:54:51 am »
I'd love to join you all on the ONE NAP ride...if i could just get Caleb to stop waking soooo early in the am!!! Grrrrrr!!!!
And now, we've got some major OT on our hands.....complete, irrational meltdown this aft that lasted well over an hour!!! Pm nap refusal, wouldn't go for any APOP whatsoever...he is sooo crabby and tiring to be around, i know that sounds awful, but really i'm just exhausted and having returned to work isn't helping.
  He's now in his crib, should have been asleep by now, but he's too busy bringing his feet to his ears, so looks like another OT bedtime for us....sighhhh!!!

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Re: Toddler Support Thread for 2-1 Nap Transition Continued
« Reply #167 on: March 07, 2010, 01:30:26 am »
Flightmommy, I hear you on the early waking and heading back to work! No fun! Jude slept until 6 am this morning and it was the first time in a week he had slept that late! He was at the sitters yesterday and only slept for 20 minutes in the morning and 30 in the afternoon so I thought we would have a bad night but he slept all night with no trouble. Today with his big birthday party and we left him with MIL to go get a few last minute supplies when he went down for his morning nap. I said to let him sleep for as long as he wanted because of his bad nap day yesterday but had no idea he would sleep the entire time we were gone, 2 1/2 hours! Then I decided for the heck of it to try and let him have a little nap at 3 since his party was at 4 pm and he slept until 4:30 when I finally went and got him up. Then though he wasn't quite himself and his nose was getting a bit runny so I would say he is coming down with a cold or something. So who know what tonight will bring but DH is letting me sleep in tomorrow so yay!
That is awesome Wendy that Finn is sleeping so much more for you, not fun having to tackle the the early feed but if that worked for Jude I think I would do it too. I have tried the occasional time nursing when he is up that early but he still doesn't go back to sleep, bummer.  The theory I had about 11.5 hours of A time a day has been working well for us in one way in that it brought all NWings to a halt but we are still getting EWing. But now I find the least sleep he gets is 10.5 at night so not really that bad, maybe just need to move the bed time later or something by 10 minutes maybe or something. I don't know what the answer is but I really wish I could figure it out!

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Re: Toddler Support Thread for 2-1 Nap Transition Continued
« Reply #168 on: March 07, 2010, 01:37:02 am »
Flightmommy, we're right there on the OT train with you.  Something is up with Jesse, I don't know if it's still his ear that is bothering him or teething, but his A times have dropped to 3 hr 15 min MAX!!!!
This morning he lasted a whole 3 hr 15 min until nap #1, then I let him sleep for 40 minutes.  Looking over the last few days we've done a longer nap in the morning, he's done about 3 hours 40 min.  So I take him out for a stroll to the library with PLENTY of time to get there and back and feed him his bottle and then put down for afternoon nap. Well, he was crashing HARD in the stroller on the way back.  I had to pull him out, carry him into the house and feed him his bottle.  At 3 hours 30 min I had him in his crib and he was jolting as he was trying to fall asleep~OT!!!!  I went in and laid a heavy blanket on him and tried to HTTJ like an infant to get him to sleep.  He fell asleep for 20 min., woke up crying, but then managed to resettle.  I cannot imagine what the day would've looked like if he hadn't had that extra 30 min sleep after that OT wake up.  Anyone else had A times drop dramatically like that with their LO?  It's really tough to know when to put him down without getting him OT or a nap refusal like a few other days this week.  I'm really envious/happy for those who've gone to the other side~ it must be so much more relaxing!! We are so far from it right now.  :(
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Re: Toddler Support Thread for 2-1 Nap Transition Continued
« Reply #169 on: March 07, 2010, 01:48:28 am »
Yes!! about a week ago Caleb would do about 3 hrs 15min for about 2-3 days, dotn know why but hes back to normal now thank goodness!!

FLightmommy - I still had Caleb do one nap yesterday after waking early, does your Caleb handle long afternoons well at all? because if he does then perhaps do that for one day and you might get a full night again





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Re: Toddler Support Thread for 2-1 Nap Transition Continued
« Reply #170 on: March 07, 2010, 11:24:12 am »
Thanks Jo!

Busy day out today for Dad's b'day so didn't want to change things today. Will be back to have a read and a think later!

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Re: Toddler Support Thread for 2-1 Nap Transition Continued
« Reply #171 on: March 07, 2010, 11:34:34 am »
Grrrr we pushed Caleb an extra 20mins and only got a 1 hour nap, I think we will end up with an EW due to OT as well....





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Re: Toddler Support Thread for 2-1 Nap Transition Continued
« Reply #172 on: March 08, 2010, 02:38:48 am »
Well, we finally got a nice late wake up this am....thanks to a 2 hour crib party last night!! Ok, so it didn't start off as a party..i'll rewind back to 5pm, during his hour long crying meltdown, i suspected teething pain and gave him 8 hour motrin. I figured if pain was in fact the culprit, then this dose would run it's course around 12-1am (the box says 6-8 hour)...well, wouldn't you know it, at 12:45am we're woken to the sound of blood curling screaming coming from Caleb's room...it was so alarming that I actually ran to his room. He was inconsolable, i couldn't get him to calm down at all....gave him another dose of motrin and dabbed a bit of teething gel on his gums....absolute silence!!! I rocked him a bit and then put him down...he played for almost 2 hours and then slept till 8:15am. So, i guess it's safe to say that he's going through some major teething...and since it's his first tooth coming out, i'm assuming it's harder on him. Given the fact that there are sooooo many more teeth to come, is this what the next year is going to be like??
  Jo, yes he can do long afternoons if he's had a super good nap (2hr+). I stretched him out to 5 hours A time today and he slept for 1h45, so not bad, and then another 5 hours to bedtime, no problem. I think i'm slowly going to wean the 2 nap days, i think they're just messing him up more than anything really...he ends up getting too much day sleep, A times aren't long enough and then we get ridiculous EW's and way too short nights.

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Re: Toddler Support Thread for 2-1 Nap Transition Continued
« Reply #173 on: March 08, 2010, 02:50:53 am »
ahhh Jo, which teeth are coming through? we found the top two were the worst for us, all the rest havent been that bad at all, to be honest not even his molar is that bad!!!

well we didnt have an EW, we had a 12.5 hour night, then today we got a 1 hour 40min nap!!! i know its only 10mins more than usual but it feels great, like a success that he will eventually sleep more!!!! Im actually loving 1 nap days, hes in the best moods all the time :)

Jo, send your Caleb over and my Caleb can have a word with him about those EW's!! lol





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Re: Toddler Support Thread for 2-1 Nap Transition Continued
« Reply #174 on: March 08, 2010, 03:12:23 am »
Jo, that sounds great...how long can he stay??? Just kidding.....i'm just in a grumpy "my kid is teething and waking me up at night" mood!! His bottom 2 are coming out right now and quite possibly the top ones as well...also felt something sharp on the top gum towards the molars?? He could very well be getting them all at once, since he's teething sooo late......sighhhh!!
  On a more positive note, looks like the Calebs have lined up their naps quite nicely huh? 1h40-45....the mommies (aka Jo's) like that!!

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Re: Toddler Support Thread for 2-1 Nap Transition Continued
« Reply #175 on: March 09, 2010, 01:40:48 am »
Flightmommy, it seems to be that the later a child teethes, the harsher it is!  Jesse's only got three and he was a wreck for all of them.  One of his top teeth was looking like it was going to burst through the gums the other day, and now it's gone back into hibernation.  DH and I were joking the other day that wouldn't it be nice if we could have one bad night of teething and the next day he'd wake up with a full set of chompers? :)


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Re: Toddler Support Thread for 2-1 Nap Transition Continued
« Reply #176 on: March 09, 2010, 01:43:40 am »
arrrggh! today we only got a 1 hour 15min nap! yesterdya it was 1 hour 40mins and we ended up with an 11 hour night! it seems that anything over 1.5 hours daysleep results in an earlier waking which is absolutely ridiculous! the kid cant possibly survive on only 1.5 hours sleep in the day, with a 4.5 hour A time and then a ridiculous 6-7 hour A time in the evening!!!! how is this possible!





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Re: Toddler Support Thread for 2-1 Nap Transition Continued
« Reply #177 on: March 10, 2010, 17:39:27 pm »
We are also having issues with 1hr15min naps.  What a pain.  I'm having a hard time figuring it out but I feel if I stick with one nap then she'll adjust.
What do you all  do when your LO wakes early in the morning?  Not terribly early just a 30min earlier, like at 6:30.  Do you bring the nap forward or keep it the same?
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Re: Toddler Support Thread for 2-1 Nap Transition Continued
« Reply #178 on: March 10, 2010, 17:42:18 pm »
Nauvoo, I leave the nap even if H wakes a little early.  It took almost 2 weeks of having a set naptime for H to adjust and lengthen the nap.  Knock on wood but we had 2 great nap days but I think the fresh spring air and being out all morning had a lot to do with it. 


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Re: Toddler Support Thread for 2-1 Nap Transition Continued
« Reply #179 on: March 10, 2010, 18:26:17 pm »
So my LO wakes after 1hr15min and I don't go into her hoping she'll go back to bed.  After about 2-3min of fussing/crying she will go 30+ min of happy jabbering mingled with some fussing here and there.  Should I go get her before this or give her more time to fall asleep again?  I just wish she'd nap longer.  I know she needs it.
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