okay, sorry in advance girls....this is a rant...yes it is about janean, and no I don't really care if she sees this.....
Right, bit of a background...janean has been staying with us since the end of september, the agreement was that we would help her out with living accomodations until I got to start work, and then we would pay her to have the kids, she would still live with us, but at the time she wanted to go out west at the time (to BC), so we thought we would be the perfect opportunity for her and us.
Well....I have hit my limit, after her living here "scott free", with full internet, over 200 channels on cable, food supplied and laundry done with ours....she met a guy...maybe even "the guy" ifkwim.
Anyhew, he needed a plce, so we let him stay here, I am a pity case, and couldn't handle the guilt of not helping them out to get on their feet like we had been given.
So, after having her man here, feeding him too. All this as we were trying to pay rent, our bills, plus feed four adults and two children.
So, not a thankyou of anysort out of wither of them, not even when I paid her, she swears she did, but my dh does not lie to me, as he was the one who noticed.
So my dh is a randy thing, bugs everyone, he is very sexually minded, that is the best way I can put it. Well how about a randy teenager, you know how guys carry on with their buddies.
So Janean's man gets in a huff, says it is very disrespectful, and he is leaving, after Janean goes after him, I tell her he is no longer allowed in our home or anywhere near the premises....This is our home, we have fed him and provided a roof above his head, no questions asked, so in my mind he really doesn't have a say in our home as he doesn't contribute.....
So.....all that has happened and she leaves and back chats in the hallway on her way out.
That is my final straw, dh is out looking a a sitter I found yesterday, she sounds wonderful, so hopefully Ri wil be there tomorrow.
BUT, THERE IS GOOD NEWS....it was Jay's first day of school/daycare today, so he neer noticed we left, he went right off to the toys, and he screamed when we said we had to go home to Riley.
I applaud you for reading this and getting this far, I just needed to let it out. Thanks for the shoulder girls.....I miss you all and I will check back in the morning before I go to work.
Now you see what I mean when I say that you girls have been better friends to me than the ones I have around here.
Right, I am off to control the screaming monster that is my son...haha