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Re: Support for Dropping That Last Nap, Thread #2
« Reply #330 on: August 25, 2008, 11:03:41 am »
If there are any suggestions on how to encourage a nearly 2 year old to just lie down quietly and try to fall asleep, I'd be eager to hear them!

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This is quite an individual question.  I for a long time napped with Zara (pre DS arriving - I needed that nap when pregnant anyway).  Then for ages, I let DD fall asleep watching a DVD - she never thought she was going to nap, I never called it a nap, but she always fell asleep LOL.  I did lay her down for it though, on a little fold out lounge bed thingy, and gave her her dummy and lovie.  I know of many other mums who have done similar to get naps.  And IRL I know of mums who have even made sure they took a little drive to get their lo to fall asleep.  All of this, however, is not BW.  And it isn't for everyone.  Just depends on how badly you want your lo to nap, or how badly you think the lo needs to nap iykwim.
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Re: Support for Dropping That Last Nap, Thread #2
« Reply #331 on: August 25, 2008, 14:11:20 pm »
interesting Stacy, about the stages of napping and not napping over almost a year. thanks for the info.
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Re: Support for Dropping That Last Nap, Thread #2
« Reply #332 on: August 25, 2008, 22:37:58 pm »
LOL we are back from having about 2/naps week with NW increasing,  to having had 10 days of naps (all 1.5hours +) & 6 days of really good night sleep, seems Mr 3 is better on 1.5- 2hours nap & 8pm-6am at night.
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Re: Support for Dropping That Last Nap, Thread #2
« Reply #333 on: August 26, 2008, 00:09:19 am »
It's funny how it all depends on your LO.  I never would of imagined my late 2-1 switching boy would adapt so well to no nap cold turkey at 34 months. The thing is, if I look at how he was as a newborn baby he was a great night sleeper (5-6 hours and 1 BF over night home from hospital) and a so so napper. I worked so ridiculously hard on his naps to fit into the BW routine as each month passed, I nearly drove myself mad!  I stressed out so much with the 2-1 nap, I could never get my 2 hour luxury break in the day like all his friends Mums were having and it led to early wake ups and NW's that we were not used to. Then...he started doing the long naps hooray....NOT... his night was shortened and we both were miserable yet again. He is much better with the long nights (11.5-12 on average now).  Naps make him grumpy, full stop, period, the end.....they make DH and I grumpy too, we are terrible nappers and better off getting to bed early people/family. So there you are, he was right about it from birth, this is my bio-rhythm Mum don't mess with it, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree!!!  :D ;D

So naps will only happen in this household for illness (hope not), hangovers :P, hectic schedules, anticipation of late nights like weddings or holidays or in a moving vehicle hopefully not whilst we are driving them!  ;)

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Re: Support for Dropping That Last Nap, Thread #2
« Reply #334 on: August 26, 2008, 00:40:35 am »
Aww how cute.  I love our double too!  I've yet to see N sleep the right way in that thing! Great that he likes the gro bag still! N has to have his feet exposed, just like DH.  Even when I swaddled him as a baby I had to leave his feet free, so we called it the "fake swaddle."  LOL.  DO you guys think we are nuts, seriously, a lot of my friends who aren't BW seem so clueless with the nuances of sleep etc...and I think they think I am insane and over analyse!  Oh well, that is why I love you all!

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Re: Support for Dropping That Last Nap, Thread #2
« Reply #335 on: August 26, 2008, 00:48:33 am »
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Re: Support for Dropping That Last Nap, Thread #2
« Reply #336 on: September 14, 2008, 17:06:52 pm »
Awww, that's sweet--bet when he was 3 mo you could never imagine such a request, eh?  :-*

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Re: Support for Dropping That Last Nap, Thread #2
« Reply #337 on: September 14, 2008, 23:51:24 pm »
Zara is back napping too.  Not sure if it is the hot weather (where we live although only early spring, we already have summer temps) or growth spurt, but she is averaging 1 hr per day more then she used to.  Nights are about 10-10.5, naps 1.5-2 hrs.  So looks like we might be here a while longer too!
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Re: Support for Dropping That Last Nap, Thread #2
« Reply #338 on: September 16, 2008, 06:49:07 am »
Lurking think ours is slowly disappearing as her nights have dropped to 10hrs and her naps to 1-1hr 15mins  :-X

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Re: Support for Dropping That Last Nap, Thread #2
« Reply #339 on: September 16, 2008, 07:37:05 am »
Wow Natasha, still not bad.  Zara's night last night was 9 hrs and her nap today was 1.25.  But her nap yesterday was at least 2 hours, so I guess it evens out a little bit.
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Re: Support for Dropping That Last Nap, Thread #2
« Reply #340 on: September 16, 2008, 08:30:18 am »
Plus DD2 is about to do the 2-1 switch it is crazy in our house at the moment.
So she only had 45min nap today and had a total meltdown this afternoon so i think i will hold onto it for a while  :-X

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Re: Support for Dropping That Last Nap, Thread #2
« Reply #341 on: September 24, 2008, 19:21:00 pm »
uugh! now that the summer is over, my little Noah does not seem to need as much sleep! :'(

our nights the last 5 days have been like 9-9.5hrs on  a 1hr nap.

so last night, in bed for 7:45---singing away til 8:45, awake at 6:15am wth??
so today I am giving him a 45min nap, he was fast asleep at 12:50 (he probably would of slept earlier but circumstances with Cohen didn't allow)----so I'll wake him at 1:30 or so and put him to bed at 7:15/7:30.
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Re: Support for Dropping That Last Nap, Thread #2
« Reply #342 on: September 24, 2008, 20:27:59 pm »
exactly!
I think Id like the summer to come back...
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Re: Support for Dropping That Last Nap, Thread #2
« Reply #343 on: September 24, 2008, 23:19:47 pm »
lol

wonder if kids in australia sleep better then ones in canada lol




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Catherine has been waking at 6.15/30am as the sun has been rising really early bring on day light saving next weekend

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Re: Support for Dropping That Last Nap, Thread #2
« Reply #344 on: September 25, 2008, 00:22:12 am »
oh Im dreading daylight savings....both boys are waking at 6:30ish--great timing for the clocks to fall backwards
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