All very interesting to catch up with you just now, as I've been busy/deprived of laptop time recently! Everything I've read on this thread seems to be about decreasing sleep needs, longer A times, shorter naps etc. But I guess I still struggle to get past the fact that our DS was on 10-20min am nap, 2h pm nap and 10.5-11h+ nights just a month ago before we went to 1 nap. So I find it really hard to believe that he might already be needing to cap that nap... For us, there have been other factors at play - noisy works on the railway line outside our flat, noisy mice in the wall cavity in DS room (eek!), possibly canines, possibly just taking a lot in (although I can't say there's much coming out speech-wise yet!), he certainly does get very excited/hyper, but that's always been an OT sign for him, unless he just needs more time to work it out of his system. Interesting to hear about long WD times in the cot, ours have remained long but thankfully they're usually < 1h now. But that does make it so hard to gauge OT/UT, doesn't it! So many times I've thought UT to start with, only to find he then gets OT and it's too late and we get that horrible short night again, 9-10h. He's certainly been tired for ages and much harder work during the day, more prone to tantrums etc. Anyway, that's just me rambling again to get it out of my system - I know I stress over this far too much but I just can't wait to have him happy and settled into a nice routine again! Not to mention more sleep for us!
Anyway, what I really meant to ask was - roughly how long after the 2-1 did you have to start nap capping again? I mean, for us it could potentially be immediate, I'd kind of hoped for a nice stretch of 2-2.5h naps before we had to do that! Did you ever settle into a nice routine after the 2-1, or did you have to start capping almost straight away?
Oh and another question - do you ever get really quiet when they first get PD at BT, for maybe up to 20mins or so, but not asleep, and then starting OT crying? No idea what that's about - I think we've finally got it right and he's just about to drop off, but then the crying starts and I know it's going to be a long time before he actually gets off. Other times it's just chatting away the whole time, and then I'm more certain about UT.