Thanks Melissa, you are totally right. I don't know why I am being unconfident about this really because I bring Aidan up differently to a lot of my friends and I stood by my decisions with confidence. Everyone thought I was mental for Baby Led Weaning as they had never heard of it. Aidan does not eat junk, drink juice etc only has home cooked food except for the very occasional treat. Lots of my friends and family think I am too strict!
I think maybe it is because she has to look after him if he is moody/tired etc and I feel bad or like she thinks I'm mean. Why is it that most people you talk to just say 'go with the flow' or 'let them do what they want to do'. Arrhhh I hate it! Even DH was like this up to a few months ago when I said ok lets do what he wants and he slept 2x30min naps and was miserable! Now DH understands, but most people don't.