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Re: anyone want to chat about the 2-1 nap switch?
« Reply #480 on: September 28, 2006, 15:48:23 pm »
So poor Marisa was so tired today and definitely fighting a little bug (as am I) and teething eye teeth and molars. We headed off to class anyway and she had some fun although not as much as usual and was quite tired. She fell asleep on the walk home at about 10:30 (only a 15 minute walk) but woke up after just 8-9 minutes as soon as we got home and stopped strolling and started crying. I let her watch 15 minutes of Dora while I made her lunch. She surprised me and actually ate really well (for her) and drank some milk and we read two stories and got her into her crib (holding one of her books) at 11:26. It's 11:45 now and she's still staring at the ceiling and kicking her crib toy in there. Hopefully she falls asleep soon and sleeps at least 2 hours (if not more) and the little snooze doesn't hurt things.

Kelly - glad Zander's feeling a little better!

Shelby, if Jessica is really feeling better I think it's OK to wake her and then let her take a long afternoon nap.
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Re: anyone want to chat about the 2-1 nap switch?
« Reply #481 on: September 28, 2006, 16:04:29 pm »
Wow a lot to catch up on!! Miss one afternoon and they get away from you!

PJ is definitely sick.  Stuffed up nose....last night he slept well i put him down at 630 and he was up at 7.  He just went for his nap at 1145.  He was soooooooo grumpy. I am really wondering about a molar but the kid wont let me in his mouth.  He has 4 top teeth and 4 bottom, so if he bites it really really hurts so I am almost afraid to poke around in there.

Anyway - I hope he sleeps a little longer today than the last 2 days.  He needs it for sure.

Stacy - omg I am exactly like you. I am so anxious over naps - always have been.  I have never been able to nap while PJ naps - like even when they were little - I am always wondering when he is going to wake.  way to anxiety producing.  And every one told me when he did short naps (40 min each) and he would wake happy be ok with it.  But I couldn't. Now I know the difference.  Now he wakes after his short nap (1hour 20) and he is crying sometimes.  So now I get it.  It is much better if they are happy when they are awake.  But still, dont you wish they would be the sleeper everyone talks about and sleeps 12h at night and a nice 3 hour nap?? 

Good luck everyone today. I am going to have to come back later and re-read some of the new issues here, sorry gals, I have to swiffer b/f What not to Wear.  Love that show!!!!

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Re: anyone want to chat about the 2-1 nap switch?
« Reply #482 on: September 28, 2006, 17:03:47 pm »
Ok I really need to get a handle on this. He just woke up crying after 1hour15 min.  I did put him down maybe a little early for him  - but i really didn't think so. He is sick - and very tired.  AND he woke crying so that means he needed more sleep, right?  ONE HOUR 15????  That is nothing.  That is a cat nap for a baby on one nap.  I can't stand this. I don't know how I am supposed to help him along except keep him awake to the point of shear exhaustion for naptime?  I guess I will have to tomorrow.  This has to give. 

Sure he had a long night, but he was SICK

shoot me.  go on.  put me out of my misery

Ok vent over - well public vent at least -

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Re: anyone want to chat about the 2-1 nap switch?
« Reply #483 on: September 28, 2006, 17:52:59 pm »
Meg, he might have woken early from nap because he's sick also.  Now that mine is off the runny nose, I can see how much it affected him.  I didn't realize that the runny nose could have made that much difference at the time because he was mostly sleeping ok and happy while awake, but now there's definitely a difference in his ability to ride out those wakings where he's had enough sleep to wake up and notice he's uncomfortable, but not enough sleep to be happy.  Maybe because of the big sleep last night, he woke a little more than usual at the 1.25 transition, then couldn't go back because he wasn't feeling great?

MRenton -- when they're first transitioning, a lot of us have found that they need a snack or a bit of distraction to get over that 10 hump of when they used to take a nap.  So, that's a another thing to to try.  During this transition, I've been doing both of the things you mentioned...when LO wakes up late enough to make it to the time for one nap, we go for the later nap; if not, or the nap is short, we'll offer the afternoon nap, and if that doesn't work, we go for early bedtime.  As far as lengthening the naps, some of the others on this board will be more help there, since I also have one of those guys who doesn't seem to need as much sleep as others, but I can say that the more and more his schedule seems to be settling in, the longer the naps seem to be getting.

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Re: anyone want to chat about the 2-1 nap switch?
« Reply #484 on: September 28, 2006, 18:01:50 pm »
I agree - he may have woken early because he's not feeling well and couldn't transition?

Well we had that 8 minute stroller snooze and I'm about to wake DD up after 2 hr 15 minute - don't want to let her go past that because good amount of total day sleep.
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Re: anyone want to chat about the 2-1 nap switch?
« Reply #485 on: September 28, 2006, 18:36:52 pm »
Agree with Stacy - if he slept 12.5 hours overnight, even if he's sick, it's going to be hard for him to get a long day nap. I'd try to figure out how he seems happiest and work the numbers from there. If a 2 hour nap seems ideal for him, maybe wake him after 11.5 hours at night so he has enough sleep needs left? I know Marisa never seems to get much more than 13 hours a day total, sometimes less. So like last night she slept 10 hours 45 minutes. And she took a 2 hr 15 min nap today plus 8 minutes in stroller. Hopefully she gets 11 tonight but we'll see.
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Re: anyone want to chat about the 2-1 nap switch?
« Reply #486 on: September 28, 2006, 21:59:09 pm »
Yes he is lovely with a 2 hour nap that is why I so much want that.  But you might all remember how much I hate to wake him.  I might be better off stretching to a later naptime then later bedtime resulting in a shorter night.  KWIM?  He will usually wake earlier if I put him down later.......

He is just wandering around slap happy right now and it is barely 6pm.  Poor LO

I know it is b/c he is sick.  I guess I just had an anxiety attack.  Yes Stacy you are right, he doesn't need a ton of sleep total, I guess I was hoping for it with him being sick and all.  LOL  but the waking up crying is killing me, too which is why I think he is better with the 2 hour nap.

Thanks = lots to think about

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Re: anyone want to chat about the 2-1 nap switch?
« Reply #487 on: September 28, 2006, 22:54:50 pm »
OK I am back -

He was asleep at 640

Here is our current schedule for sleep =

wake up 630-7
nap 1130 (has been this time for quite some time b/c he has been waking up earlier in the am)
bedtime 630-7

with these short naps he has been going to sleep at 630 to catch up - but maybe I am producing this vicious cycle?

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Re: anyone want to chat about the 2-1 nap switch?
« Reply #488 on: September 28, 2006, 23:33:14 pm »
Honestly, I don't like waking DD at all either but remember it's to make PJ happy in the end. When I have to wake Marisa I sneak into her bedroom and turn off her sound machine/white noise and place some toys in the crib. Even if she gets upset for a second (or more) she's ok after a few minutes. I'd wake him after 11.25 hours overnight and try the nap 5 hours after waking...
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« Reply #489 on: September 29, 2006, 00:19:23 am »
LOL Kaleb. Marisa now launches herself into her crib at night and for naps (especially at night). she barely lets us get through Goodnight Moon, brushes her teeth and literally tries to launch herself in to her crib - no more hugs, no more lullaby... She ended up with 10.75 hours last night (on the shorter side but she's never done huge overnights), 8 minutes in stroller and 2.25 hours in crib nap. Asleep by 7:25 - we'll see what tomorrow brings.
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« Reply #490 on: September 29, 2006, 10:30:07 am »
Oh Marisa isn't trying to play before sleep - she's launching herself in to roll over and fall right asleep for the most part. Asleep at 7:25 last night. Heard her whimper at 5am and then all was quiet unitl 5:20 - when she was standing and crying. I gave her Hyland's for her teeth and told her it was still bedtime and she seemed tired and went right back to sleep - it's almost 6:30 now so we'll see what happens - not sure if was related to her teeth, overtiredness, hot (warm in apartment), etc...
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« Reply #491 on: September 29, 2006, 11:24:46 am »
Update - silly girl was still sleeping at 7 so I snuck in and put a few toys in her crib, turned off her sound machine and opened one shade. She still kept sleeping until 7:15 and is playing in her crib now. We'll likely only get 1.5 hour nap today (if that) but who knows - will try not to let her nap until 12:15 and hope she can get to at least 2 - but otherwise early bedtime tonight - she got 11.75 hours overnight from start to finish but from 5-5:30 was restless and/or awake so maybe she still has more in her...
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Re: anyone want to chat about the 2-1 nap switch?
« Reply #492 on: September 29, 2006, 11:32:33 am »
wow Karen I don't think I could get away with telling PJ is was still night time.  First of all I doubt he would get it.  HA HA

He was up at 530 and fell back to sleep at 630 :(  and slept till 710am.  Seem shappy enough right now.  He is just so proud of his walking self that it very well could be a part of this.  He has been walking for 2 months but he is so much better at it these last 2 weeks - interesting.

Also I wasa tthinking that the cold very well could be making it hard for him to sleep.  A stuffed up nose is VERY annoying even if you feel fine, KWIM?

I guess I will try to push further than 1130 this morning.  But our house is getting painted and they called to say they will be 'power washing' it today.  That can't be quiet...... crap. ::)

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« Reply #493 on: September 29, 2006, 12:29:12 pm »
Do you have a noise machine or fan you can use to drown out the sound? If he slept until 7:10 I'd push him until at least 11:45 - maybe 12 if he's doing OK...
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« Reply #494 on: September 29, 2006, 14:38:10 pm »
I have lots of white noise LOL  I will be playing it proudly.  well, now they aren't going to be here till after 12.  Which is good ?  I don't know.  At least I can tell them to start on the other part of the house?  Ah

We are staying in this morning - since I thought the painters were coming - and it is hard! he seems ok - but definitely tired.  Lots of snot (sorry to be so crude) I am going to try to push a little longer but the boredom is killing us both!   :o  Maybe he'll sleep longer b/c he figures nothing exciting is going on.  HAHA

Thanks for the help

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