Help!!!! Eva is now 13 months and we have been struggling with EW since march
. I was just abut starting to accept she was LSN as we only seem to get 10-10.5 at night regardless to daytime sleep. We went on holiday a few weeks ago and I thought we had cracked the routine, we were getting long naps (still 2) and although BT was falling later than at home things we more consistent, sme night were still 10.5 but naps were good. This continued for about 2 weeks back home, managing to get 11 hours at night and 1.5-2 hrs daytime, then it fell apart again
. We are now getting EW, short naps. I don't really know what to do tbh, my head says early BT but I am getting so much resistance from hubby who says later. Our older daughter was always a nightmare with early rising and his argument is I never got her sorted and we did things my way then. I really don't know where to go from here and feel really lost, she used to be such a good sleeper then it just changed overnight. Everyday at the moment is all over the place, but this is what we aim for.
WU 5am
1st nap 9 for 30 mins
2nd nap 12.30-1pm but this could be 40 mins or 1hr 10
BT 7pm
We have tried longer am nap and then had longer A time inbetween also.
Today she did 30 mins am and 1hr pm.
She self settles but suddenly cant get herself through next cycle.
I need help putting a plan together, I do have to do school run in the pm so that afternoon nap cant finish anylater than 3pm.
Thank you x